Can I have a private post please? I swore at my partner on Sunday because he was…
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Can I have a private post please? I swore at my partner on Sunday because he was being a complete idiot and he ended up throwing his drink all over me, I’m 5 months pregnant and was really emotional and told him that we was over and his reply was ‘so I don’t care I’m talking to someone else anyway’ we already have a child together and been together for 4 years we’re engaged an I’m absolutely heart broken, I haven’t spoken to him since and have been staying at a family members as I just can’t face being at home, the only time I’ve heard from him was this evening when he told me not to make any plans with my LG as he will be picking her up between 5-6 at he weekend. I really don’t know what to do, he told me also on Sunday that he wants nothing to do with this baby I’m carrying. I know I started it by swearing at him but it wasn’t aggressively and it’s not like he’s dead against it, he just snapped. Just want some advice as I’m an emotional wreck (with probably no-one to blame but myself).
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If my partner threw a drink over me everytime I swore at him I’d be constantly swimming… he sounds like a jerk the fact he told u he doesn’t care and could be cheating on u says all u need to know… make a life for u and ur babies and let him realise what he has lost
It’s not your fault at all, personally I’d turn around and tell him if he doesn’t want anything to do with the baby your carrying then that’s fine but don’t think your going to be seeing the child we already have, it’s not fair children should be treated equally hun, don’t let him make you feel shit you’ve done nothing wrong hes the one talking to someone else not you! X
U are pregnant and hormones are everywhere but it is not ur fault if he’s been talking to o meeting someone else. That’s his for not being man enough to talk to u or understand pregnant women can be emptional. Sorry I can’t give u advice but I hope you realise u are worth so much more x
Sorry he sounds like a complete looser .. firstly if he’s seeing some one else when your pregnant with his child then to be honest you deserve better . You may be hormonal but your carrying a baby inside you your bound to be .. he’s supposed to be supportive not off chatting to other people .
Secondly if he wants nothing to do with this baby why should he see your current child at the end of the day he is meant to be dad to both he can’t pick and choose it takes 2 people to make a baby and if he wants to be a child himself he obviously is not adult enough to look after your current child .
Also who is he to demand when he wants to pick up your current child and telling you and controlling what you do .
If he wants to take your child out then you both should be discussing times and dates appropriately between you not him dicatate what he wants .
Tell him to go take his sorry asse to his bit of meat on the other side .
Your better off on your own and finding a real man who deserves you …
Keep your chin and some men seem to think the grass is greener else where . They dont learn to water there own grass so it stays green for them xxx
Stay strong and be positive
Your not to blame I swear at my partner a lot he doesn’t throw stuff over me your better of with out it will hurt a while but you will get over it especially as he admitted to talking to someone else
Do NOT blame yourself for the argument, maybe you shouldn’t have sworn, however you are 5 months pregnant with another child to care for (or two, it seems). Hormones rage at this stage and you will be extremely tired.
Take this time apart to ‘think’. You have a reason why you ‘reacted’ to his ‘action’, does he have a reason for his action ???
Maybe you both just need some time apart. When/if you want to talk to him, arrange to meet somewhere neutral over a cuppa and talk about what is ahead, not what is behind. It was an heated confrontation, perhaps you both acted/reacted irresponsibly, however what is done, is done – it’s where you go from here that is important !!!!!!
Take care.
Poor you 😢 im not trying to sound rude but if all it took was for you to swear at him to end your relationship then it sounds like he was looking for any excuse. We all say things we shouldn’t during an argument it sounds like your beating yourself up over swearing and thinking its all your fault. If he’s seeing somebody else and told you he wants nothing to do with your unborn baby sounds to me like your better off without him but i know thats easy for me to say because im not in your situation. Hope things start looking up for you soon xxx
It was a swear no big deal….. Why is he talking to someone else he’s risking losing his family. .. I’d tell him to go do 1 to be honest…
That’s just horrible don’t blame yourself… some men are pigs x