Can I have a private post please I wrote in yesterday about my partners mum havi…

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Can I have a private post please I wrote in yesterday about my partners mum having a accident and me bein at the last stages of pregnancy extremely high risk due to premature babies still birth and my last daughter born extremely poorly with a infection because my waters have leaked through every pregnancy I said about how I was struggling because he’s making him mum his main priority I geg she needs extra support I do but i collapsed a few weeks back and I’m under strict instructions to rest and limit what I do with our 1 year old daughter despite this iv hardly seen my partner and struggled completely day after day I was OK until it started that he had to sit at home all morning waiting for her to phone telling him to pick her up leavin me with our daughter and then took her to a appointment.. OK but then when they’d finished she decided she wanted to go clothes shopping leaving me for another 3 hours with our 1 year old kicking of and booting me in the tummy non stop headbutting me me struggling to lift her in and out the car and in the pram because she just didn’t want to go in, I got upset and said I’m going to have to go into hospital because I can’t get any help and it’s putting the child at risk.. I’m that high risk theyv offerd me to be admitted til the end of the pregnancy I’m 32 weeks there trying to get me to 36.. I got upset and said I can’t bare it and got called a selfish cow horrible dickhead the lot. Today I messaged him at half 10 sayin I really don’t feel well I need help to wich I got I’m taking my mum shopping I’ll come later. He came at half 1 sayin hel take our daughter leaving me with my two eldest till 4 because he’s going out for his tea I got upset.. I said I can’t handle how it’s making me feel and I need him to I said what if I do to much and something happens to the baby.. He actually turned round and said well then something happens to it 😞 I said I can’t believe hes said that he said I’m completely selfish and horrible and he can’t stand me he’s finished me now and he won’t ever look at me the same I said I geg it’s hard for him but I feel like I’m getting left without a second thought.. there’s no right iv got to take my mum shopping so I’ll take our daughter.. Or iv got to wait at my mums all morning for her to phone so I’ll take her with me hes jus got angry saying his mums his priority because she can’t do anything and has no one.. Even though when I was there last she had so many people rallying round helping offering to take her places ect he said he’s not going to leave his mum struggling because I’m saying our baby might die it’s pathetic he’s jus walked out saying I’m main everything about me and told me to tell my mum to help me because it’s her job and his mums his.. My mum is self employed and works 5 days a week and then does a carin job every Saturday for 14 hours a day and also lives miles away.. I don’t no what to do I need to no if there’s any support out there with my daughter or if I went into hospital because it’s making me ill does anyone no of any please help iv Bent over backwards this past week running his mum round helping her phone places dropping everything to go help look after another child because his mum got left looking after him and letting my partner sleep through the night because he’s tired while iv been up and down all night wirh our daughter I just need the weight lifting are there any support stall around for people in my position I’m so scared I’m going to loose another child
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