Can I have a private post please? I’m at a loss at what to do, I’m sick to deat…

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Can I have a private post please?
I’m at a loss at what to do, I’m sick to death of my partner, I love him but he is starting to get more like a responsibility. He works im currently on maternity leave, I am also at uni, he thinks because he works he shouldn’t have to lift a finger at home he does no cleaning, no washing, just leaves his s**t everywhere. He does what he wants when he wants and will just walk out the door and will go to the pub a lot with his friends. He doesn’t spend any time with our daughter and I look after her 24/7 ( which I expect im her mum) but surely he should want to spend time with her? He will come down stairs after getting up when ever he wants leaving the bed a mess, spend 10 minutes sat on the settee on his phone then says ‘Iv spent time with baby I’m going on Xbox’. He works around 35 hours a week I do 48 at uni (which I’m expected to do from home with baby with me). If baby cries at night we’re told to go downstairs so he can sleep as he didn’t get to bed until 2 am ( he plays his game until that time). Since baby’s been born he hasn’t helped at all with her or the house. It even gets to the point he refuses to feed the flipping cat.
Any advice on how to get through this? When I speak to him I’m told I’m just being ‘horrible”vile”nasty’ so I’m stuck in a hole where I can’t speak to him but I’m getting sick of acting like a single mum so he can do whatever he feels like. I’m so behind with uni work I have an essay to be in Thursday which Iv only write the intro for but he doesn’t care
Thanks for reading xx
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