[ad_1]
Can I have a private post please im so annoyed I don’t no what to do my little one had her one year jabs last week we got tolf about the side effects including measels rash coming up today iv woke up after bein up all night with her bein poorly to my other half sayin she’s got a rash iv looked and said I wanr to phone 111 and make a appointment at the walk in because the walk in is always seriously busy. She isn’t well it’s snowed really bad and theres a risk of her bein contagious and a risk of her catching something else ontop of what she’s already got. He got her up not dressed her not fed her not got her a bottle or a juice drink. I Googled side affects of the jabs and explained to him what I thought they were i also Googled what to do before I took her example check if she’s affected by light so I could see whether it would be better to take her hospital. Then I rememberd someone sayin how dangerous it is for pregnant people to me last week and said oh god (I’m 34 weeks I’m high risk of premature labour due to 3 already bein prem iv had a previous stillborn baby I have gestational diabetes and high risk of baby getting poorly due to my waters leaking and I also have antibodies in my blood that put my babys immune system at risk so obviously I thought crap and went on the NHS website to look what to do in pregnancy and told my partner while he was doin her bum. He’s got all stroppy getting her coat on and I said hold on I’m on the phone to make her a appointment so she’s not sat in there for ages and not at risk or putting someone else at risk he said no he’s not waiting around he’s takin her now I said she’s not eaten or drank or had a bottle he chucked a thin coat on her over her vest and baby grow said he isn’t waiting around anymore i said let me get dressed first and said it’s not fair to drag her out on the of chance she will be soon quick (iv been in there uo to 5 hours before now he said he isn’t waiting for me hes takin her he doesn’t care and took her out in the freezing cold no phone on him takin my car so I couldn’t even follow him down even though his is parked up outside. He walked out tellin me to get myself sorted and get myself OK havin a dig. Soon as he went I phoned 111 anyway on the off. Chance I could get the ball rolling they wouldn’t make the appointment because I wasn’t with her sayin due to the circumstances they could have made me one straight away. He’d been gone now over a hour so I phoned his mum asking if she could go down he’s Stil not been seen with her and his mums jus said he’s turned round in the middle of the oug of hours and said he’s annoyed with me because I’m selfish! That I Sat making it Al about me and couldnt give two fucks about my daughter because I sat googlin how it could have affected me instead of bein bothered about her! His mums jus said he’s not happy with me atal. I’m absolutely fumin and jus broke in tears I can’t believe hed even try sayin that to people am I overreacting here 😞
[ad_2]
Source