Can I have a private post please is this my hormones just want opinions of other…

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Can I have a private post please is this my hormones just want opinions of others. I’m due to have my 4th child two from a previous partner I brought up myself for 4 years a 1 year old and 33 weeks pregnant, my partner panicked massively when I found out and only really just started to get excited and involved today he’s come back from his grans who he goes to every weekend and said his dad started saying aload of crap about us having another sayin stuff like.. God help u when this one comes ur never goin to have a life now u won’t even get 5 min and won’t even get out atal with all those kids.. Went on to say how he rather it be my partner than him and carried on and on about how much he’s goin to miss out on and how much of a life he’s not goin to have. My partner is a extremely hands on dad baths changes gets up feeds the lot and he works and when United is playing I encourage him to go pub to watch it or every weekend he goes to his grans on a Saturday and Sunday for a few hours his dad’s sat telling him how it won’t be happening any more iv tried sat and explainim that I brought two children up for 4 years by myself and there now 7and 5 and alot easier and help me out alot that it wouldn’t change anything and I still want him to go out and do the things he does as long as when he comes back he carrys on bein as hands on as he is that I’m sure I can manage with them all for a few hours. It didn’t work I could see his mind ticking over because he took in everything his dad said it’s really annoyed me now though it’s took me so long to get him excited and ready and I feel like I’m back at square one he’d only 24 so alot of people comment on that to how can I reassure him
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