Can I have a private post please. May be a long one so please bear with me. Me a…

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Can I have a private post please. May be a long one so please bear with me.
Me and my husband have been together over 9 years we hAve a little boy who is 6. He has a daughter who is 11 from previous relationship, she was 2 when we got together. Always had her every weekend as Mum was very bitter about split and wanted him back. Done everything she could to split us up. Husbands sister always looked after his daughter in week etc as she was always ‘out’. Daughter at two said to me mummy said u have taken my daddy away. Explained to her that no one ever would etc. As she got older she obv stopped telling us wha mummy said and started being nasty to me and her dad, saying she didn’t wanna come etc etc. We preserved until she pretended that I hit her to her Dad. I then took a step back and he saw her without me. Things were still the same being nasty saying she never wanted to come her Mum made her etc. She was caught squeezing my sons temples and pinching him when he was a baby. Again persevered with her. In end she refused to come. Mother and her family filled her head with so much crap. Fast forward. We haven’t seen her for nearly 5 years. Her mum made her grow up so quickly. She used to wear make up at 5 etc n short skirts 😔 I just can’t stop thinking of her and whether we should try to get in contact. I saw her out at event and she didn’t even no hu I was or my son as hasn’t seen him since a baby. Husbands family say leave alone as caused so many problems in family and said she will come when she older and we can explain. Just have this niggling feeling like I need to get in contact. Any advice??
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