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Can I have a private post please. me and my partner split on Thursday due to an argument he said that was it. we do argue a bit especially since moving in together with our little boy. we were kids who had everything handed to us and never had to do anything for ourselves. so moving out was a massive step up for us. We are both as stubborn as each other and both always think we are right. So anyway Friday night he went out and got drunk and kisses another girl. Saturday night he got drunk Sunday night he got drunk. on Sunday night we were semi on talking terms. both flirting together sending each other pics etc on Snapchat it was like going back to when we first met. Christmas day he came round to ours so he could spend Christmas with our boy. we opened oresents everything was fine. we then gave our boy a bath and as we were doing so he was saying he was horny etc trying to kiss me. I moved my head at first but then went in to kiss him. after we put our little boy down for a nap we did the deed. he think walked out as soon as we’d finished because he felt guilty. We both wanted it, we both got what we wanted, but he’s made this massive deal over it. On the Sunday nigjt when we were flirting he said shall we just be fuck buddies but I said no. so in not entirely sure what he felt guilty about on Monday if all he does want is sex. anyway he left about 1jsh on Christmas Day. he got absolutely smashed at a friend of ours. I asked him if he would come back to look after his boy at 6 so I coukd go out with a friend for a couple of hours just to have a break from our boy. I’d had him since Thursday all on my own and he is hard work. anywah he refused so I said that fine we’ll just go down the hard route and go through mediation or court. anyway he soon changed his mind when I said that and said he’d come to look after him. he did turn up 30 minutes late though mind. When we first split he was using my mental health again me(I suffer with depression) saying I’m a risk to our child and an unfit mother. I’ve never once put our child at risk. I am on meds for my depression and has self referred myself to first steps for counselling. he doesnt understand depression at all he just think it’s people being lazy. I try my god damn hardest with our littke boy and the house but I do struggle. I’m not entirely sure what I want from this post….anyone got any advice?? I’d take the guy back in a heartbeat which I know makes me such a mug but he’s my first true love we’ve been together 3 and a half years and have a baby together. he taught me to love again and to love myself again after I’d been raped. he was such an angel and it’s just gone downhill 😣
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