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Can I have a private post please 😊
My mum passed away when I was very young after years of alcohol abuse and I’ve never really known my dad (have no interest in getting to know him) so I was brought up in foster care for a few years until my nan took custody of me when I was 9 and I moved in with her and her new husband.
We were round for a family gathering a few weeks ago and there was talk of me and my partner getting married. My nan asked who I’d like to walk me down the aisle and made a comment about her or my step grandad doing it.
Her comment has been playing on my mind ever since as I suffered years of mental abuse from both of them. My step grandad was an alcoholic too and would get blind drunk and call me fat bitch and all sorts at the age of 9 and onwards! Taking to me nan about it at that age she’d always take his side and say something like ‘at least he’s not a peadophile’. When I turned 16 I managed to move out and haven’t looked back. I kept a good relationship with them for the sake of the family but I struggle not to be very bitter towards them. I really want to tell them I don’t want anyone walking me down the aisle as everything I have in life I achieved for myself and no support from anyone! I feel like I shouldn’t worry about how they feel when I tell them no because of the way they treated me but just don’t want any grief from them!
Any advice please no nasty comments
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