Can I have a private post please My step dad brought me up from birth but sadly…


Can I have a private post please
My step dad brought me up from birth but sadly passed away a few years ago. I have never met my biological father, but tonight I went on a mad search on Facebook and found his daughters Facebook and his partner. It seems that he doesn’t have Facebook, and so I obviously can’t have direct contact with him. Out of curiosity I really want to get in touch with him, I have already prepared myself that he probably won’t want a relationship with me. The only problem is I’m worried incase his current partner and two daughters have no idea about me, and so by messaging his partner it might cause trouble between them. What would you guys do leave it and carry on with life and never know, or go ahead and message his partner with the risk it might cause arguments?
This is not at all me trying to fill the void of loosing my step dad he will always be my dad, it’s genuinely just out of curiosity.
Sorry for the long post x


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6 thoughts on “Can I have a private post please My step dad brought me up from birth but sadly…

  • 20th November 2017 at 8:38 pm
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    Babe if you want to know you have a right, you didn’t ask for him as a father <3 as for the argument surely that's down to him if he's not been honest with his partner thats down to him not you xx

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  • 20th November 2017 at 8:38 pm
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    Hey I did something similar. My mum has always been honest about my dad and I knew he didn’t want anything to do with me. But after me playing detective I found an ex of his and messaged her. Turned out she knew nothing about me and she had a daughter with him (my sister) I’d say go with it. I’m glad I did x

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  • 20th November 2017 at 8:38 pm
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    I’d go with your gut feeling. After all he is your Biological Father. But go into it with no expectations. That way your less likely to get hurt. Obviously it will be a bonus if all comes together & u are able to establish a relationship. Good luck. Xx

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  • 20th November 2017 at 8:38 pm
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    Do not message his daughters or partner, it isn’t you’re right to destroy or break up another family.. incase they do not know..
    try other ways to contact him..x

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