Can I have a private post please. On friday I was sent a message by a woman I d…

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Can I have a private post please.

On friday I was sent a message by a woman I dont know saying my boyfriend has been messaging another woman and telling her he loves her. This isnt the first time he has spoken to another woman in a flirty way. He has inappropriately messaged my sister and best friend. They both told him its out of order and told me straight away. I feel so hurt and betrayed that he has done this again. We have been together 2 1/2 years and have a baby together. I have no idea what to do. I have very little money as Im on maternity leave and I dont have any family with spare room that I can stay with even if I wanted to leave. I confronted him about the message that the woman sent me and he has admitted he has been speaking to the woman in question. He has shown me some of the messages between them. The messages aren’t sexual. But they cross the boundaries of just friendship. He met this woman online so hasnt even met her in ‘real’ life yet was telling her he misses her. Loves her company. Thinks she is cute etc in all her pictures. Other women he has messaged before he said stuff like he wished they lived closer and gives them affectionate nicknames and puts loads of kisses on the messages. I dont know if Im over reacting. He says she means nothing to him and he has deleted and blocked her. He has been grovelling and apologising. But I jist don’t believe him as Ive heard it all before. He wants another chance. He has had 4 chances and keeps doing it. A important family member of his died a few years ago before we met. Thats when he went online and met these women. He says he doesnt know why he speaks to them apart from the fact he is lonely and its become a habit. Almost an addiction to seek attention. I love him so much, he does seem sorry but my trust is broken and I dont know how I can get it back. What would you girls do? I dont know if im over reacting as its not physical cheating. If it was just me I would have left and stayed on people’s sofas or something. But we have a child now so dont know what’s best for them. He says he knew this woman before he met me so they have been talking through the whole of our relationship. He isnt affectionate at all. I have to ask for hugs or kisses and the few times we did have sex I always had to initiate it. Some of the messages ive seen were sent when we were in bed together. I was dealing with our child and he was telling her he is lonely and misses her and wants her company. I just dont know what to do. I cant believe he has jepodised our family. I thought we had got back to how we were at the start of our relationship. I honestly thought our child had brought us together and he had stopped seeking comfort online but obviously not. What do you girls think I should do?. Ive had mixed reactions from friends and family.
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