Can I have a private post please? Sorry, it’s a long one. I’m a mum of a gorge…

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Can I have a private post please? Sorry, it’s a long one.

I’m a mum of a gorgeous nearly 2 year old and the wife of her dad with a bad temper.
He cooked us breakfast and due to the hot weather was a bit hot, so took his plate and sat infront of the fan. No big deal. But our daughter wanted him to sit with us and was crying for him. Cue his anger issues…….he started shouting, telling her to ‘shut up’ and just went way over the top. I asked him not to talk to her like that because it’s not nice. He then started swearing, f’ing and blinding saying he would throw his breakfast in the bin. Went to get her out of her high chair and was shouting at her again because she wanted him to take her plate and cup away.
I told him there was no need to be like that with her and he told me to F off. Now he’s been getting more and more disrespectful towards me and I’m at breaking point with him anyway. So I told him to F off (I don’t normally swear infront of our daughter and I really wish I hadn’t risen to him) and he shouted back no, you F off, he was right in my face, food getting spat out of his mouth, veins popping and his face was red with anger. I told him I’ve had enough of his anger and him shouting and talking to me like that and told him to go back to his mothers. He has just sat down and started playing on his computer again (he sits there for 12 hours a day).
Now I really don’t know what to do. I don’t want our daughter hearing us arguing and I don’t want to bring her up in an unhappy relationship. I’m not afraid of being a single parent, I take care of her the majority of the time anyway, I just don’t know if I could manage financially without his wages. I currently work part time and as he works shift he has her 2 mornings a week while I’m at work.

I don’t know what to do. All I know is I am seriously unhappy with things the way they are.
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