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Can I have a private post please would anyone else put up with this I’m due to go in first thing tomorrow to be induced iv had very difficult pregnancys including my son passing in labour I was supposed to be admitted to hospital weeks ago and because I didn’t want to leave my kids and daughters dad to struggle I declined and had to sign a form sayin I was goin against what the doctor advised me and leaving iv spent weeks going in daily for monitoring and spent the past two weeks contracting but not getting anywhere. I’m 36 weeks today they believe the baby is at risk so have put me in for induction in the morning. My relationship has been rocky to say the least at first he didn’t want It and left me I went to hospital by myself onv a few occasions and struggled with a hard pregnancy ans 3 other children it wasn’t until he actually sat and herd the doctor say me and the baby was at risk he actually stepped up to help me and our daughter and stay at mine for support. I was 30 weeks. He’s moaned and winged over the past few weeks about how he’s tired doin everything his backs hurting he can’t wait til this baby comes the lot. Iv still done alot got uo every night with our youngest school run got all kids ready washing hoovering the lot daily. These past few days iv said we need to get things readt for the baby the moses basket stand was playing up the shopping for baby milk the lot theres a door hanging of its hinges that leaves a draft comin through a few things. It’s always been ill sort it I’ll do if don’t worry. We’ll it got to the other day and iv had its Christmas wel do it tommorow it’s Christmas eve I’m not cleaning the house ready. Wel it got to today this morning he spent 2 and a half hours getting ready for my mum’s while I did 2 lots of washing washing up hoover the bedrooms changed the beds the lot he told me to stop and he’d help later when we got home. We got back and he wanted to go c his mum so we did and it started getting late we got home eventually and he started moaning how he hasn’t had time on the PlayStation and he’s got to mess around cleaning I said I’d he puts the moses basket together and jus hoovers the kitchen and hallway I’ll do the rest. He started goin on about the moses basket till I said right forget that wel sort the stand when we get back with the baby so then he started moaning abouf how the hoovers broke and he has to bend down to hoover the kitchen and hall.. He started moaning till I said well I bought a sweeping brush were is it he said oh I chucked that so I said wel there u go then I had something easyer uv chucked it and he started getting arsey saying I was starting on him after him having a nice day and ruining it I said u no what forget it grabbed the hoover while he was sat on the couch and literally crawled round on my hands and nees hoovering all the kitchen hall and stairs. He could obviously hear me doin it he came out when I’d litteraly finished telling me to leg him do it I told him to f off my back was throbbin so I got upset I said iv put up with so much through this relationship but to no Iv got so much to do iv been told to get rest I’m giving birth tomorrow and sitting while I crawl on my hands and nees because he can’t be arsed I said I’m not having it and I want him to go. He turnes round and said oh ok wel our daughters pood so I’ll leave that to u then to said he’s only been here for our kids sake not mine because he doesn’t want to be with me and that he’s dreading this baby coming (we don’t no what the baby is,) because if it’s a girl ill pull the iv got post natal card again (i had it with our youngest daughter) jus because it’s a girl because I lost my only boy (I havd 3 girls and my only son passed away) iv told him to leave he said I’m a joke and he can’t wait because the way he sees it is one more day then freedom 😞 I don’t even want him near me now and don’t no how I’m gonna handle tommorow what would u do? I’m never gonna stop him from being at the birth but we’re in for a long day jus me and him and I’m so upset have I overreacted
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