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Can I hve a private post please, I met my partner when my children were 1 and 3 …

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Can I hve a private post please, I met my partner when my children were 1 and 3 there now 5 n 7 there dad wasn’t round due to dv and social reason my partner took them on as his own they call him dad we losta child 2 years back and he came out of work we split up and lived separately I supported him with my benefits and got him insured oncmy car payed all the insurance tax and petrol for a full year also buying him clothes presents everything but never got a anything in return my ex partner left me in 9,000 pound of debt I pay it of weekly about 69 a week out my money we had another child and my partner went of the rails and split with me he got a job working two hours a day so comes out with 400 a month my car broke so I agreed to share his Nd I’d pay towards I paved 50 he paid 70 and we both put in petrol then we tried again and I fell pregnant he turned into a massive dick sayin toget rid he didn’t love me finished me n walked out wed argue and he’d tell me to walk n dissapear with the car on nemourous occasions iv had to rush to school doctors and even had to pay 25 pound to go hospital for a emergency scan because he played god with the car he doesn’t pay a single penny towards his daughter sayin the government pays for her iv decided I need to get my own car I have 3 young children and I’m extremely high risk pregnancy so will be back and forth to the hospital iv jus told him I can’t afford to pay towards the car as I don’t use it end up on my arse when I need it and that I have to put my children first instead of him, he’s jus gone absolutely mental sayin he’s never taking MY two kids again to go and ask there dad for money and when it cokes to the school run I can walk (even though I’ll be heavily pregnant high risk supposed to be on bed rest n its over half hour walk away up and down hills) because he’s nsced having my two again or helping me with fuck all when I explained imon my arse n have. My daughters party coming up he said his insurance is more important he’s then gone on to say everyone slags me off to him sayin don’t appreciate fuck all I use him and everyone tells him I can do better he’s said he’s had girls messegin him sayin how he can do better than me and he’s jus swore on out daughters life that he’s goin to a party tonight to meet someone else he then topped it of by sayin he wishes he wasn’t tguz baby’s dad that I’m carrying as its the worse thing to ever happen to him (despite him nd me loosing our son during labour at 34 week) n that every one in his family and at work think I’m a cheeky bitch moaning that he doesn’t pay towards his daughter because I’m a lazy bitch and scrounger (I always worked ) had post natal depression after our son and still comp!eted a teaching assistant course and work placement till I fell pregnant again am I the one who’s wrong here??
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