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Can I please have a private post?
I just wanna know what other mums would do in my situation. I have an 8 year old boy and a 2 year old girl I live with my hubby who is the dad to both of them, I am due to start full time uni in September for child care course and I am really excited about it since I ain’t done anything with my life since having my son 8 yrs a go but the problem is my hubby doesn’t help me at all physically emotionally and mentally he only helps financially he doesn’t help around the house with anything he doesn’t even bother looking after my 2 year old so I can at least relax for 5 minutes even when I am sick I still cook clean bath the kids do the laundry dishes you name it I do it all he works which I understand from Monday to Saturday from 5:30am to 2:30pm that give him such a good excuse not to do anything at all he’s always been like this even before work, whenever I bring this up he’s always saying well I was gonna clean but u did it before me if I leave the house messy for 2 days it will stay like that as soon as I clean it he will say well i was meant to do it but u did it, I have noone to help me even to take 1 hour driving lesson He can’t look after the kids because he works he get home tired blah blah blah I am technically worse than a single mum I see my friends baby fathers taking dey kids for a bit, I am sure he won’t change as he strongly believes a man should provide and a woman should stay home to do everything, I just wanted to ask if I shouldn’t go uni or I should just take the opportunity and go head with it? Looking after the kids and doing everything on my own is very hard for me right now I am just thinking how am I gonna cope with uni and kids 😰☹️☹️☹️💔 thanks.
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