Can I remain anonymous please I don’t no what to do Iv split from my husband rec…

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Can I remain anonymous please I don’t no what to do Iv split from my husband recently due to him not wanting the baby I was carrying he wanted to sort things out but things didn’t change and he went back to his mums. He’s let me down a few times through this pregnancy not turning up to scans ect but told me he changed his mind about the baby and wanted it. He hardly bothers with out 1.5 year old hardly has her tells me when and when he isn’t and if I try putting my foot down because there’s been times he’s told me he’s coming and iv Sat waiting in for hours for him to turn up and he hasn’t he’s told me he’s not being dictated by me to when he sees his daughter. Last week he worked Monday to Thursday finishing at 3 and didn’t have his daughter the weekend I could hardly get hold of him he went out with his cousin and to familys for a drink both days hes turned up 3 nights walking in and out my house as he pleases when he wants to give her a kiss and I said for the babys sake because we don’t get on he needs to sort a proper day he can have her and have some time away from me. Iv been extremely poorly this past week bad chest infection and I told him (as our daughter isnt well I need a rest this weekend I’m a full time mum to 4 children heavily pregnant. He said on Thursday he would decide when and maybe Sat depending on what times the footballs on and him goin to his familys for a drink. When I got upset because iv been throwing up all week he said he deserved a break because he’d been working Monday till Thursday again finishing at 3. Friday he walked into my house at half 9 at night unsettling my daughter waking her up I told him to leave he called Mr horrible for stopping him said he’d havd her tomorrow he’d message me a time last night and he’s 100% having her, he never messaged I messaged 3 times and he didn’t write back this morning I Sat in till 11 and felt like I was goin to pass out. I got all 4 kids and went to the out of hours I mentioned about reduced movements the did all my observations, my blood pressure is high my oxygen levels are low my chest is really bad and they phoned the anti natal unit they asked because my two youngest were throwing one if I had anyone to havd them, I explained and there face said it all they said I need to rest I’m really not well and it can take affect on the baby. And I need to go hospital, I phoned my mother in law and asked if she new where my husband was she said he’s here with me Were in town shopping, I snapped I said is he kidding he’d not gor in touch with me it was half 2 and he buggerd of shopping and I had to go hospital she text me then saying she will collect her when she gets back later. I spoke to the doctor and she told me she wasn’t goin to send the kids up with me and phoned the community midwife to come mine and listen in for a minute. They have and my mother in law is now texting sayin he hasn’t basically done anything wrong and hel sort out another day. I can’t even check my baby’s ok and they don’t care what would you do in this situation
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