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Can you post this privately for a work mate please (I’ve already told her my opinion)….
Basically I’ve been seeing this guy for 5 months, told me he left his ex because she over reacted about him messaging an old friend (he deleted the messages but she found them) he says there were nothing to it hence why he deleted them. Anyway I’ve just found out through a friend that his ex is 6 months pregnant with his child, I’ve asked him if it was true and he’s admitted it is although he begged her not to keep it as he has a good life always on holiday, good money and she will rinse him for CSA (he already has a daughter) where as she lives in a scruffy area, is a uni student and can’t drive (which will be a problem when the baby is here) . He’s not gone to any scans with her or appointments as he’s been busy or she’s kicked off and told him to not bother. He’s told me not even his family bother with her and from the day they found out she was pregnant they all blocked her and none of them have spoken to her since but I don’t understand why he’s kept this from me? He’s sworn nothing has happened since they split up and that he really doesn’t want anything to do with her or the baby but he has to as he knows people will think bad of him if he doesn’t see the child. I don’t know what to think, what would you do? He’s also said she’s sent him messages kicking off and I don’t understand why if he or his family haven’t bothered than she doesn’t really have a reason to kick off also she’s already pestering him to buy the baby stuff, he said she’s kicking off calling him a waste of space because she’s bought everything for the baby but he’s said to me he doesn’t see a rush, he’s off to Australia for 2 weeks and has a few trips away with me booked so he will buy everything after that. I’m absolutely gutted yet received as it explains why he’s been so moody with me some times I just don’t know what to do xx
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