Could I get a message please? It’s a bit long winded but I would appreciate all …

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Could I get a message please? It’s a bit long winded but I would appreciate all the help I can get.
So a little over a month ago my son who is 7 and diagnosed with asd went to school and told his teacher about an incident that happened at home. ( my partner of 4 years and him were playing around and my son farted on him, my partner can be immature at times and said if he did it again he would fart on his head.. of course my son did it again and my partner pulled his trousers down and pretended to fart on his head ) the school then contacted child protection and they came round my house to speak to me about it. I was told that my partner was not to be left alone with my son until the case was closed. ) on the 10th April I received a phone call but was unable to speak as I was at my son’s doctors check up so he called my mom to ask questions so he could file a report and close the case. We haven’t heard anything in this time and I now also have a 3 week old baby. Last night a social worker turned up at my house out of the blue and told my partner to leave immediately and that he wasn’t allowed in the premises. I was then bullied into signing a working agreement which states that my partner was leave and not return and that if he wished to see his new born baby that it would need to be supervised, I only signed as she told me the case should be closed tomorrow ( today )
After she left I realised she didn’t leave a contact number or anything so I spent all day today chasing her up calling all different numbers and when I eventually got her assistant I left numerous messages with no call back to then be told she was in a meeting and to call back at 5, I called back and the office was closed.
At this point I was really upset and called out of hours services and explained the situation to them, the lady I spoke to wasn’t happy about how it had been dealt with and told me what usually happens now is they do an assessment which can take upto 35 working days!!
I cannot be without my partner for 35 days raising 2 children who need my attention at all times! I am happy for them to complete the assessment and to dig as much as they like because they won’t find anything but I need my partner here with us. What can I do? She is going to call me back in the morning so I want to know if there’s anything I can do? I understand she’s just doing her job and I don’t need to be judged but they’re taking this way out of context and it’s already been over a month now. They’re breaking up a loving family and my son is already feeling the strain and saying he wishes he could go back in time and not say anything.
Also they have been going into his school without my knowing and asking him questions.. is this allowed? Tia xx
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