Could I have a post please? I need people’s opinions, I am very sorry it’s so lo…
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Could I have a post please? I need people’s opinions, I am very sorry it’s so long..
My mum is a compulsive liar. She lies about every aspect of her life, and she drinks. Every night, she’s been married to a man for 2 years nearly, and they’ve been together for 3, he has made her drink more. He’s very controlling, he answers her phone, then deletes the calls, or texts, follows her home, but hiding so she doesn’t know, and there was a time she told me she was mugged for her phone, and ended up with a black eye, but was never reported to the police, etc. But people have come into my work and told me how he beat his ex wife so badly then left her there and went to the pub and these people have had to phone an ambulance. He doesn’t allow her to see me or her grandson (her only grandchild), she has to rush home every day for him and she’s not even aloud to wear a bra!!!
It was my birthday 2 days ago and she didn’t bother seeing me then was meant to be seeing me yesterday but sat in the pub. It ended up in me arguing with her and her husband. He’s told her she’s aloud nothing to do with me, and she wouldn’t answer the phone to me until he left to go out. Fast forward to this morning my partner has told me not to have anything to do with her and he doesn’t want our son having anything to do with her either, and if I do, he’s leaving as he’s fed up with me being upset constantly because of her , as she let’s myself and my son down constantly. Now this morning my nan had a heart attack, and she’s in hospital I’ve phoned my mum to notify her, and I was crying, she’s now text me asking if I’m Ok, and my partner has told me not to reply.
I understand he’s annoyed I keep getting hurt by her, but is it ok for him to tell me not to listen to her? He’s never told me what to do in the past, but from an outside point of view do I not bother with her, whether it may be a short or long period of time, or do I ignore him and have a relationship with my mum?
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Sounds to me like your partners trying to protect you and your son from continuously getting hurt, his probably upset that your always upset and makes him feel anger towards the people who cause you to be upset, that’s real love there Hun, don’t be upset with him for trying to protect you, I hope you do eventually get a better relationship with you mum all the best xx