Could I have a post please ? Okay so we had been out to watch fireworks in the l…

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Could I have a post please ?
Okay so we had been out to watch fireworks in the local pub this evening and just went into the pub when the fireworks had finished so my mum could have one drink before coming home (I wasn’t drinking as I’m pregnant) when my mums partner who I haven’t really seen eye to eye with since my mum got with her 8 years ago heard my son say ‘fuck sakes’ when he tripped over (he’s 3) yes I know he shouldn’t be saying it but he’s a really good boy otherwise and he’s got it from my road rage cause truth be told I’m a terrible driver 😂🙈 I don’t encourage it but I’m also not going to punish him for it I’ve told him it’s a bad word and I’m naughty for saying it and left it at that … anyway she turned round and said ‘whys he saying that , don’t know why your having another kid when you can’t look after the one you have already got ‘ this was in front of my mum and her friends and my mum didn’t even stick up for me so I stormed out with my son and came home and have argued with my mum for not defending me … now this argument has been brewing for weeks since I found out I was pregnant (this is my rainbow baby after 4 losses in 2 years) and my mum hasn’t been involved atall I phoned her up because I was going into hospital and wanted her with me thinking I was loosing the baby and she stayed at home with her partner and sent my 12 year old sister to hospital instead , I’ve invited her to 3 out of 5 scans she always has an excuse because only one persons allowed in the scan room and her partner won’t be allowed in with her and she can’t possibly do anything without her .. on my birthday we couldn’t do anything together because her partner won’t be in the same room as my partner so my mum instead of doing something without her partner didn’t do anything with me on my birthday am I overreacting due to hormones or do I have a valid reason to have exploded tonight with my mum ? I can see its abuse , so can my nan , so can my sister but my mum just can’t I’ve been trying to get through to her for 3 years now and she can’t see it even though she’s been in abusive relationships twice in the past I’ve tried getting her on the freedom programme with women’s aid but she refuses to I can’t take the way her partner treats me anymore but don’t want to loose contact with my mum either but I let her last partner mentally and physically abuse me for 7 years I’ve had lots of therapy for that and I’m much stronger now I don’t want this one sending me 20 feet backwards after it taking me so long to get over her ex partner 🙄😞 what would others do ?
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