Could I have a private post please…. So it’s a long one! Basically me and my e…
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Could I have a private post please….
So it’s a long one!
Basically me and my ex partner split up due to him going on drunken binges (he’s had 1 other blip whilst we were together, I moved out he got help & moved back in on the understanding that if it happened again he was out!) so it happened again & I kicked him out (we have a little girl together!)
Since kicking him out he went into hospital for rehab for 4 weeks from alcohol & cocaine!
So all contact is supervised! He’s fighting against This!!
Now my question is this….
If he’s failed his drugs test & alcohol test, massively! Chronicle excessive alcohol levels and medium cocaine use the whole way through (which the test determined was regular use!) Despite lying on both his statement for court and to his doctors (so he can get anti depressants).
He’s still trying to lie about it even after the proof in black white!
We have a temporary court order until January which states he gets to see her every Sunday supervised by my parents (I aren’t allowed to supervise due to high risk of harassment)
I don’t see why she should have to sit there with him when he’s like this!! When he does go he doesn’t take an interest, he sits clock watching!!
Social services are due out to me Thursday but seem to be giving him more information than me!!
Also, what is harassment ??
If he’s being nice & we’re getting on I do try to get along with him and will text him back about random things.
But then he always turns it into an argument and ends up kicking off.
But I’m under the domestic violence team for control, but due to everything going on they think it’s bet holding off on the counselling until court is out of the way.
Which doesn’t help me now! I have anxiety due to all of this and I’m really stressing!!
Also, have any ladies ever had high levels come back on drug and alcohol test? What was the outcome in court ?? He seems to think social services have told him he can continue to see her!
I’m Going out of my mind with worry!
I aren’t stopping him, I used to spend the day with him and our 1 year old when he was in hospital! I’m gutted this has happened!!
So please no bashing! This is hard enough as it is!
TIA!
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