Could I have a private post please? I don’t know if I need advice, support or j…

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Could I have a private post please?

I don’t know if I need advice, support or just to get it all off my chest. My husband and I split up 5 months ago after 10. He was abusive (physically, mentally and financially) to both me and my 3 daughters and I was stupid enough to put up with it. The last 5 months have been hell, he has made a referral to social services saying I’m a bad mother (no further action thank god) he has also told them I will hurt myself and the children and turned all my so called friends against me so I have no one. I live in the house, however it is in his name not mine. Obviously i knew he had put the house up for sale but I found out today the house sold and the completion date is set for 2 weeks time! I have nowhere to go, I am registered with housing but not a great band so I’m not getting anywhere and I don’t have money for a deposit on private rent. I have seen a solicitor, filed for divorce and have obtained housing rights from the land registry but this gets removed when the house is sold providing I get a percentage of the proceeds, which poses other problems. My ex is clearly fuming over all this because I dared to go behind his back and get advice, even telling me he won’t sign the divorce papers. This is all affecting my children but he can’t see this as long as he is getting to me. I’m so scared that if I have nowhere he will take my children from me. I can’t cope with anymore but I don’t dare tell anyone in case it gets back to him. I’m terrified of losing my girls and not being able to take care of them
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