Could I have ppp? I’ve posted a few times about issues with my partner.. his men…
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Could I have ppp? I’ve posted a few times about issues with my partner.. his mental health is bad and it got to a point for me last week that I tried to get him sectioned and I called the police to remove him from my house (weren’t being violent or arguing I just needed him out) I’m also 28 weeks pregnant. I believe I will be a good mother. I have bought all my baby’s stuff by myself he has everything he will need and I love him so much. I work full time in a good job working my way up and I’m 21 and have my own house. I was so excited about my baby he’s my first. Now since I’ve rang the police last week I feel like that it was the WORST mistake of my life. I have now had domestic violence ringing me saying it’s going to a marac to discuss with other agencies to see if there is a risk to myself and just had child protection on the phone to me saying they are doing a screening, asking my midwife if I have attended my appointments and will be speaking to partners mental health team to see if he has been attending his appointments. I feel like I’m being punished because of my partners behaviour and wish I’d never even tried to get him some help. I do not deserve social services and would drop my partner like a hot cake if it came down to him or my unborn baby. I don’t want this ‘support’ from the social and I now feel like I’ve done something wrong. I feel ashamed that social services are involved before my baby is even born and now I don’t even want him to arrive when a couple of weeks ago I couldn’t wait. You hear about stories all the time about social workers being arses and people getting their kids taken from them when they in fact a good parent. I can’t tell anyone this because they really will wonder why I’ve got social services involved. I’m in work trying to not cry at my desk and my anxiety is sky high!!! Has anyone been in this situation before? Please no bashing, I can’t stress enough that my baby is my priority and he will come first no matter what!x
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Because the police where involved they have a obligation to refer to marac. That means nothing against you or your partner it is purely to make sure your baby is going to a safe home. With all the negativity regarding social services they have to be over protective of you like. All that will happen is they will speak with you, ant other professionals who provide services to you to make sure that baby is well and being cared for. They are not against you as a mother. If anything they are trying to help you.
Mental health is very hard to deal with and support the people we love going threw it but if it’s not controlled and this is happening u have every right to have him removed so he can get the right help and medication he needs and once that is all sorted hopfully u and him will be in a better place to bring your baby up and your not doing nothing wrong by putting your baby first xxx