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I have 3 kids, 1 year old, 7 and 8 year old. My 7 year old daughter has been misbehaving for over a year now and I don’t know what to do. She was bullied at school last year which did affect her, and she stopped going to the toilet on time. We have since moved school and she is much happier however she is still not bothering much with going to the toilet and when we talk about it she tells me it’s because she can’t be bothered basically. On top of this she is constantly lying to me, for about a year now, and has been stealing (sweets) from me and from her school, and possibly money from me.
We have had hundreds of conversations and everytime she tells me it will stop and she apologises but nothing changes.
She has already had a letter from ‘Father Christmas’ telling her she might end up on a ‘naughty list’ which did upset her, and she talks how she hopes she wont, and yet nothing changes.
With Christmas coming up I don’t know what to do. They always get a present and a stocking from ‘Father Christmas’ and presents from us, Do I take away the presents from ‘Father Christmas’? Is it too cruel? I’d hate for her to be sad at Christmas but at the same time I just don’t know what to do.
At one point she had all of her toys and tv etc taken away from her, and it made no difference whatsoever.
Please help, any advise would be appreciate as I just don’t know what to do anymore.
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