One of the nicest things as a parent is chatting with your child, hearing all the exciting and crazy things that go on in their heads…
But what if your child can’t tell you about their day?
This is Dexter, my 4-year-old son.
Dexter doesn’t talk.
It’s not that he can’t, more that he just doesn’t want to.
Everyone says that they will talk when they are ready. That’s true. But what about when you are ready for them to talk to you, but they won’t?
“Did you have a nice day?”
“Who did you play with?”
“Are you happy?”
“Do you have any friends?”
All I can settle for is a smile and maybe a nod or the shake of a head.
We work very hard, he attends one on one speech therapy, has done for two years now and truly it has helped. But honestly, I want more. I want to be able to chat with him, hear his stories, his thoughts, his dreams.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m lucky, I have a kind, loving, gorgeous little boy and I wouldn’t change him for the world, he is who he is and that’s okay.
Hopefully one day, this will all be a distant memory. All we can do is carry on working together, and hope.