Hello can I have a private post please…I need help! Basically me and my daugh…
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Hello can I have a private post please…I need help!
Basically me and my daughters dad split up when I was pregnant and she is now a year and half old. Recently I’ve started seeing somebody new, I’m not introducing my daughter to him together until waaay down the line so I know things are legit. Thats going great he’s accepted the fact I have a daughter (he has no kids) and happy to meet her when I feel the time is right, so we’re taking it all at my pace. The problem is my daughters dad. I know for a fact with how he is that If he finds out I’m seeing somebody he is going to cause a riot. He is utterly obsessed with me, I had a court order against him for a year (non-molestation order) that’s ended now so if he kicks off I just call the police however the thing I’m worried about is him taking our daughter away from me out of spite because I’m finally happy. He’s took her before because he couldn’t get his own way and refused to give her back, and because he’s on the birth certificate the police couldn’t do a thing! I was distraught! It’s not like he doesn’t see her, he sees her every week for 3 days including overnight stays. Luckily my mum managed to get her back but I’m scared if he finds out I’m seeing somebody new and happy he’s going to do it again, literally out of spite. Out of respect I’ve always said if I met somebody I’d tell him because he will gradually meet our daughter down the line but now it’s come to it I’m absolutely petrified! Can I have your ladies thoughts & advice please?
Thank you in advance x
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I spoke to someone at mediation a couple of weeks ago about this as it is one of my fears and my Ex had threatened to do the same (empty threat I am sure but still a worry) she told me that if he did do this I would have to get an emergency court order and she said that it would end up my ex would be allowed to see our child in a contact centre. I was also adviced to apply for a residency order and then the police would be able to help x
I think u should be firm and tell him it is how it is nothing will change where ur baby is concerned n stick with it everything takes time x