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Hello can i have a private post please.
I’m moving into a new house. I have works going on and moving with a toddler is hard. My son went away for four days so we could do a majority of the dangerous works thusday morn to monday eve. Chopping trees using heat gun stripping paint from banisters, plastering, painting ect. ect.
We had an argument Saturday 17th. Very very loud. I understand disturbance. (All windows were open which probably didnt help) now i am ashamed of words and what went on anyway.
My son was at his nans from the Thursday to the Monday.
Well i got a visit from the social services to my house. I was not there yet as sleeping at old place as not ready to move in yet. She left a note and i rang the number. I thought it was my new health visitor. Rather quick i thought as only got handed over tuesday. So im on the phone and this lady from social services says they had an annon referal saying violence from mother to father and visa versa on the 17th (saturday) baby witnessed this and also smoking of cannabis around baby, i think she said 15th and 17th for this.
My baby was not even in the borough. He was miles away with his nanny! What do i do??. We never usually row like that we are moving and its stressfull and we are suffering deaths in family and just going through such a hard time. I think i insulted my neighbour unknowingly by commenting on how dirty the house was and how i don’t know how people can live with thick dirt everywhere and never open windows and have mold and mildew smell, referig to the condition of my house when i signed for it…. Not only that but my idiot cousin was sat in the garden with his friend and got splashed over fence by kids and he abruptly said “can you stop fucking splashing me?!” Then they did it again and he said “oi” i told him to stop and had a word with him that thier only kids but tbh…. hes just a bit of an asshole sometimes and dont get kids at all and we don’t see him often only when we need electrics checking…
Now im freaking out so bad. After ringing back and her telling me this i immediately shut all windows called other half and son in from garden and spoke to him about it. But i just wanted to leave the house. I can’t believe this is happening.
Ive been waiting to settle into a house for so long and am hating the fact the neighbour has seen us at our worst and most chaotic and added bits and called the social.. im mortified anyone has concirns over my baby hes the happiest child and nothing ever happens while he is around. Because at stressfull dangerous times he goes to his nanny.. what should i do they are coming at 12:30 tommorow to my house that is under renovation… so scared.. never had ss before..
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