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Hello could I have a private post please? It’s bit of a long one but I don’t know where else to ask and it’s getting me down. My father passed away march this year, he lived with this women they weren’t married or even Ina. Relationship (complicated but he worked a lot and had known her since they where about 12). So when he passed away I was told he had no will so I was like okay fine. I got pushed out so much, I asked two days later if I could be involved
In the funeral as I was his next of kin and his only child to which she replied she’d already planned it all without me being there which I was quite hurt about tbh. So she told me he was getting cremated but she was keeping the ashes as she thinks he’d prefer to stay there as he lived there, which has hurt me so much as I have a daughter he adored and would have obviously wanted the ashses. I asked to go through his things she. Said no, instead she dropped me a bag of with a pair of socks, trousers and an aftershave I’d brought him but he’d never used (he wasn’t materialistic but I know he had other things better than bloody socks). So she kept telling me he had no money blabla, (I wasn’t concerned about money BUT I didnt see why she should get it) so I went to see a solicitor who tbh was crap and a waist of time and I couldn’t afford to keep going. I found out he was paying money into a savings account but I could never find out as she had the death certificate and basically o think she’d told them all he had no children. She told me all his cars were on finance which never made sense as he always worked hard even when he wasn’t at work he was earning money, she found out about
The solicitor as he had phoned the funeral place to try and get the ashses put on hold so I could get them (he never put them on hold) so she then turns up out of the blue and says she’s sold his car took the funeral money out of it and here’s 4 grand. (I think it was to try get me off the solicitors etc) did she have the right
To take money from the sale of the car or even sell the car when legally I’m next of kin? Anyway the question i want to know
Is there anyway I can get
The ashes? I suffer with depression and it’s making me really bad I think about it everyday. I’m 6 months pregnant and all o want is my father I know I have memories but 😢 thank you in advance if anyone can help, bit random and all over the place o know x
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