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Hello, Please can I have a private post.
I have been very upset recently, I feel so insecure about my bond with my 5month old baby. I am fine until my Mum is with him, I feel as though she is trying to be his mother. She also makes lots of comments like ‘ignore Mummy and look at Nanny’ and ‘you don’t want Mummy you want me’. It’s like she is so desperate to take him off me. I have always been close to my Mum but she no longer talks to me or even asks how I am so I don’t feel I can approach her about this. She will also be looking after my baby when I return to work part time as we can’t afford childcare, I am dreading this. I don’t want my baby to want her over me. I think I may look for evening work so I can spend more time with my baby. One thing I have considered is that as I did have a traumatic birth and I was also unable to breastfeed, perhaps this could be effecting my confidence in my bond with my baby. I cried so much in the early days because we had lots of complications and I wonder if I had post natal depression.
Does anyone have any advice or support they can offer? I don’t feel I have anyone to talk to so really appreciate any comments.
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