Hey Hun can I have a private post please. *** no bashing please *** So I was w…
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Hey Hun can I have a private post please. *** no bashing please ***
So I was with this boy for just under a month and ended up pregnant by him. We broke up before I fount out but I told him as soon as I knew I was pregnant. We both decided to carry on with the pregnancy and he was lovely for the first few days, then as the weeks gone by he became so bitter and nasty, called me every name under the sun, accused me of cheating, even told me I had been sleeping with his cousin (which I hadn’t been). He also told me he wanted me to get rid of the baby, and that he don’t wanna be involved… He constantly smoked weed and got drunk at every chance he could and long story short he came to only my 20 week scan after that he messaged me saying he wants to be involved and that he’s sorry but I told him that he’s not being involved because he could never be trusted with the child, he’s never paid anything towards the baby bits I’ve bought, nor has he wanted to be involved and I told him I’m not prepared to let him keep being involved and changing his mind not fair on my son… he’s also blocked on everything because he got nasty when I told him that. My question is what would you ladies do in my situation? I somehow feel guilty for stopping him seeing the baby (due December 30th💙)… what would you ladies do in my situation?
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If he wants to be involved i say let him because part of parenting is about putting your personal feelings aside and doing right by baby 🙂 its not always fair but its the right thing to do, just try to remind yourself that your feelings towards him are not the babys feelings if you know what i mean.. if he fucks up again thats his problem but give him the chance when baby is born his feelings may change, men tend to take longer to come around 💛