Hi all urgently looking for advice here. Ex partner left me at 7 months pregnant…
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Hi all urgently looking for advice here.
Ex partner left me at 7 months pregnant for someone else. They were both extremely vile towards me until the end of my pregnancy and including the day of the birth and after. He has become unstable and on drugs since and from what I’m aware of he has no actual fixed abode.
I attempted on numerous occasions to involve him in our child’s life from day 1 but unfortunately he wasn’t having it and sadly a lot of it was influence from the new bit on the side. In the end I gave up and stayed quiet…. no messages or calls from him until almost 9 months later today I get a message asking to come to an agreement to see our child. My mind is all over the place and I’m terrified he will let our son down.
I have since moved on 6 months ago and I’m now with a wonderful man who is so lovely to my son and I. Obviously he’s not his father and never will be and he’s told me it’s completely up to me what I do about the situation he will support me either way. I guess my question here is what do I do? I feel so anxious he will let my boy down and they will both be vile to me again… it’s not about me I know that most certainly. It’s about the child. I never stopped him seeing him before so why should I stop him now I guess? Sorry for the long post I just need advice from someone else apart from my partner.
Many thanks xxxx
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