Hi can i have a pp please to whichever page. Just wanted a bit of a rant reall…

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Hi can i have a pp please to whichever page.

Just wanted a bit of a rant really because my partner is being treated so unfairly by his parents it’s unreal. So we are in the process of moving in , so he never stays there any more or maybe 1 night a month just to see them. His dad is unwell due to heart issues etc but all his mum cares about is bloody money. She’s demanding full rent from him this month even though he’s been here every day bar 1 day which to me is not fair on him because he gave me what he normally pays his mum as rent because well he nearly lives with me (it’s only £200 but even so) , now here’s the issue, his mum constantly tries and guilt trip him by using his dad’s health to get what she wants out of him so if he tries to stick up for himself she’ll go “oh but he’s not very well and has been in hospital or he’s missing you when are you coming home” but then when he does get home all she wants is money from him and he normally just ends up going to his room to get some stuff to bring here or if it’s late hell stop over. His sisters have never paid rent even though his mum has said they do he thinks it’s utter rubbish and whenever he’s needed anything from her “can’t afford it” or “why don’t you pay for it yourself” but yet his sister has had a brand new mini Cooper paid for , a boob job , basically anything she’s wanted , she also has a much better paid job then my partner yet lives for free because 9/10 she’s at her boyfriends. Which is what he does me me yet he’s expected to pay full rent! It’s driving me insane as he’s so upset about it and the latest one she’s decided to do to him is that his dad hasn’t got long left to live apprently , so obvs when he came back to mine he was in flood of tears and felt so awful , do you think his mum messaged him to ask how he was or if he needed any support? No no. “I need my board by next week because I’ve got to start paying bedroom tax now your not here” – I hit the fucking roof as that’s not his fault she’s having to pay it because he doesn’t live there. Do you think his sister has to now she’s actually moved out as well apparently? How can a mum do that to her kid! He’s since received constant badgering about money and when can she get it and don’t ignore me etc but he’s chosen to ignore her because he can’t deal with it anymore. Then to top it all of his dad actually was sat outside his work place this morning waiting for him because his mum had told his dad a bunch of lies that he’s not spoken to her in weeks and was worried yet the last time they spoke was actually Saturday. Any advice of what to do next would be good but I just needed to rant because I don’t want my partner feeling down by me telling him what about 5 people have already told him about what his mum is doing. I’m trying to support him about his dad and help him talk to them in a way that avoids money so he can see his dad without feeling awful but she’s just not letting it lie. She even had the cheek to suggest that when he’s all moved in and our bills are joint etc so we’d have limited money to ourselves that he was have to pay her £150 a month for the first month or 2 of him moving out to cover this bedroom tax charge?! Wtf!! Please help as I’m so close to telling her to fuck off and be a mum not a leech but I’d rather not have a bad atmosphere with her at the moment due to the situation with his dad x
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