Hi, can I have a pp please? I’m 20 and my partner is 23. We have been together …

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Hi, can I have a pp please?

I’m 20 and my partner is 23. We have been together 2years, live together, have three dogs and a 10month old. I did a test this morning and there was no doubting it was positive. The lines where as dark as if it had been sat there hours. I’ve got the implant and 9times out of 10 we also use condoms because I really didnt want another baby so soon so naturally this is a huge shock. I couldn’t even tell my partner without bursting into tears.

I dont know how or what to feel. My partner is signed off sick and I do the odd beauty job here and there. I don’t like the idea of having an abortion. For one, it terrifies me from what I’ve read on these kind of pages from people who have had them and been in pain and two, I dont really agree with them (although I dont have a problem is someone is wanting one. Its their choice.) We don’t get a lot money wise. We have enough to live on and treat my daughter every so often but thats about it. Mentally I dont feel ready, I worry too much about others opinions, I dont want to not give my little one the attention she needs and our families would go mad and my partner’s dad went nuts when we got our staffy puppy! Another baby and I can see WW3 happening. Theres more things bothering me but honestly the list could go on and on.

I don’t really know what I’m asking for. Whether I just need someone to tell me everything will be okay or if someone has been in a similar situation where their families make everything so hard to decide. I’ve done nothing but stress and cry all day now and for the first time in a long time, even my partner has cried 🙁
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