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Hi can I have a PPP? Recently I went through a pregnancy scare kind of and turns…

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Hi can I have a PPP? Recently I went through a pregnancy scare kind of and turns out I’m not pregnant but when me and my partner thought I was he had said to me “it might explain why your not loosing any weight and why your boobs are saggy” well after finding out I’m not Iv started thinking about it constantly, I’m so asked of my body after having a baby 8 month ago,well he has started acting so differently since, he won’t bother coming to bed just to cuddle ect he just wants to stay up,the past 2 days iv felt so unloved as he seems to be pushing me away,he doesn’t want to have sex much anymore and makes me feel Like there is something wrong with me,tonight iv asked and asked if he would just cuddle with me but instead he wants to sit in the living room messing with the tv, I’m feeling so ugly and unwanted but everytime I mention it he starts a argument and makes me feel like I’m crazy and just doing anything to start a argument but all I want is to feel loved but I feel so guilty for it, I try to have sex with him but he just pushes me away and says we can tonight,then that night he says he’s not in the mood,then the next day he’s too tired ect,I don’t know what to do anymore,I feel like I’m loosing him. I just end up crying when I think about it, last week when I was getting severe pains to the point I couldn’t stand or sit up all I could do was lie down and hold my stomach I asked him just to cuddle me and rub my belly so he rubbed for a second and I turned around to see him on his phone,he couldn’t just comfort me and come off his phone for 5 minutes. I found out he was watching porn the other day and I broke down in tears because he can watch that but not touch me,please someone shine a light on this for me please and tell me what I should do,what can I do to hopefully get him to start loving me again. Sorry its long but I’m extremely upset and don’t want to hurt his feelings by telling him how I feel invade he takes it the wrong way. Thank you in advance x
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