Hi can I have a PPP? Ok so I think I already know the answer to this but I just…
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Hi can I have a PPP?
Ok so I think I already know the answer to this but I just need some different views.
Been with my partners 4 years, we have a 3 year old together. He left me last year for 4 months at the worst possible time in my life. He’s left me 4 times now when he decides he can’t be bothered. Occasionally he’ll attack me, by occasionally I mean he’s done it 3/4 times in a year so it’s not regularly, the last time was 3 weeks ago and he pulled my by my hair onto the floor and stomped on my back then said it was my fault and if I told anyone he’d leave me.
He tries to be very controlling, suggests I get rid of my car as we can’t afford it even when we can.
He isn’t the nicest to our daughter either some of the time.
Thing is though he does make me happy some of the time and I do enjoy our time together and our little family and I’m scared of losing that.
What would you all do?
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3 or 4 times in a year! That’s 3 or 4 times more then it should be happening! He sounds really awful and that he is abusing you mentally and physically!
And he is even mean to your daughter at times?!
Why are you still with him? You can find yourself a nice guy who treats you the way you deserve xx
Your the mother of his child and his treating you like this!! Please Think of your daughter and you first and get out before things get much much worse. You don’t know what his capable of if his already done this. No one should put up with this! Imagine if it was your daughter in the same situation what would you advise her to do..?? ….
protect herself I’m sure.
Yours and your daughters safety is much more important. You say your “happy some of the time” but Someone out there will make you happy ALL the time like and treat you with the respect you deserve x
I’d get out of there before he kills you. He is blaming you for his own baggage and while you’re there you will be at risk. He is also blackmailing you. Clearly he is aware that there is a lot wrong with your relationship. Otherwise he wouldn’t have to threaten you.
I’m sorry but is this a serious question 😠 ask yourself this in 10 yrs time your daughter came to u and said the exact same about her partner what would u tell her to do no man should EVER lay a hand on you never mind just 3-4 times a yr
If hes doin that to u id leav but been mean to ur child do u really need ask. Ur a mother first and for most u should protect your kids and ur daughter wil grow up and maybe get with a man like that. Think wat u wud tel her then?
I would suggest leaving him if he’s like that. Tbh you can do miles better without him people like that never change if he can do it to you he could do it to your daughter. I’ve been in this situation and it never got better just got worse and luckily I managed to escaoe1 I would wugg1est doing the same xxx
Get rid, that 3/4 times a year is 3/4 times too many. You shouldnt have to take the odd slap just to be happy ‘some of the time’ and not being the nicest to your daughter just tops it off. You can do way better x
He’d be 6 feet under the patio by now if that was my husband. That would be after the first time. I hope you know it’s not ok for him to treat you like that. If you’re not willing to leave him for your own sake (maybe google the stats for deaths through domestic violence) please leave for your daughter’s sake.
I’d run sorry been through h something similar said he would change never did and he nearly killed me it doesn’t get better it gets worse think about what you would say if it was your daughter in your shoes you would tell her to leave you need to and your daughter will pick up on it and it isnt fair on her and if hes being horrible to your daughter who’s to say he won’t lay a hand on her not only that you run the risk of having social services involvement you and your daughter deserve more
I bet he’s always sorry after & tells u it will never happen again, that’s what them kinda of ppl say. Get rid!!!!
#ByeFelicia 💅🏼 then eat some cake x
I’d leave and never look back x