Hi can I have a private post please. Does anyone have a partner that suffers wi…

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Hi can I have a private post please.
Does anyone have a partner that suffers with depression and a drink problem.
Me and my partner have been together for 12 years we have 2 children 6 and 3. We have been through a hell of a lot over the years and managed to get through it together and move on. Thing is he had a drink problem which after years of him being a horrible drunk to me. he finally got help and nearly a year on we have been stronger than ever. Last few weeks his drinking has started again. Only a few here and there but I’m not stupid as he thinks. I no how it builds up! I have tried to speak to him about it which just ends up in a massive row of him saying he is depressed and carnt cope as since he started drinking again I have backed away (which he new I would do as we have discussed this as I won’t allow me and my children to be put back through it all) so cos of Me regecting him he has started to drink so it’s all my fault. His answer Is now I’m having a go at him I’m basically calling him useless and a waste of space which I’m not. I try to make everything easier for him I sort kids out for school/nursery. clean the house then go to work for the day and come home ‘re sort kids out for bed and clean up again. Sort all bills out etc. He doesn’t work so he spends his day doing what he wants around the house and just picks the kids up from school. But says I put to much pressure on him by nagging him too much yes I can be a bitch and go off on one but I’m tired and stressed so I get angry when I get home and have to clean up again. I feel all the pressure is on me cos I’m constantly on the go and haven’t be able to just sit and relax in weeks but he thinks it’s all on him cos I’m nagging him. Please help me before I loose the plot thank you!!!
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