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Hi can I have a private post please. I am currently having to live at my mums with my 3 year old daughter after losing our home. The other night my daughter and my almost 5 year old brother was in the bath and I noticed my mum wasn’t in there with them so as I walked closer to the door I could hear my little brother whispering asking my daughter to keep turning around, so as I poked my head around the corner I saw my daughter stood up and my brother had his face in her bum and his hand between her legs, he quickly moved and said he wasn’t doing anything, I grabbed my daughter out the bath and told my mum who doesn’t seem bothered by it what so ever. My other siblings have never been the best behaved children and I was left to live with my nan at the age of 10 because my mum moved away, so I’ve never really been here longer than a week at a time. My little brother is a horrible child to my daughter and is constantly taking things away from her, standing in her way so she can’t get past(the other day she was in the put up pool and he was stood on the stairs not letting her get out) pushing her out of her seat so he can sit there, taking toys away from her, if she asks for something he then demands it and always gets it, whether it be a pair of shoes, the last snack, a toy. He can never sit there and just play with her, he always wants what she has and if she says no he tries to say ‘let me show you, let me help you’ to take it away from her. He kicks,throws things and hits her. If I ask my daughter not to do something he will then do it so she copies and he doesn’t stop. I’ve also noticed that he will jump on the swing, slide, bike or whatever when He sees her running towards it, but because he’s got on it first I give him the benefit of the doubt and say to my daughter to wait her turn obviously she’s getting angrier and angrier so when I tell her off and she starts to cry he will then just jump of as if he was waiting for her to get shouted at. There is so many things but my mum never seems to bat an eyelid and always says it’s just kids and she’s even told me to let them work things out for themselves to the point he is beating my daughter up for a wellie boot that she has on that he decides he wants. I’m so stressed out and have no where to go. My daughter is learning the behavior and is ignoring me just as much as my brother does to my mum but the thing is my mum does nothing in punishment wise, she will say she will and he just turns around and says ‘no you won’t I’ll run away from you so you can’t get me’ and that’s the end of it. Am I over reacting here? Because my mum seems to think I am.😔
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