Hi, can I have a private post please?:) I just wanted advice (from both male an…

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Hi, can I have a private post please?:)
I just wanted advice (from both male and female would be great)
Basically I’m currently on holiday and I said to my partner before I came out (he’s stayed at home I’m with my friend) that I still want to message just a few times a day and maybe FaceTime a couple of times.
I’m really upset and annoyed because he hasn’t messaged me first once. I’ve messaged him and he knows I don’t like messaging him first 24/7 because I feel desperate/annoying. We’ve only spoken properly one day out of my holiday and he promised me he’d talk to me on Saturday but didn’t.
I’ve tried bringing it up nicely saying I wish you messaged me first sometimes etc. But he hasnt done so I’ve ended up getting annoyed and we’ve had a row.
I just feel like us girls need our men to show us there thinking of us and make a little effort?
I don’t want to speak every minute of every day I know it’ll be good space and He works 8hour shifts, but a few texts throughout the day? A couple of facetimes through the week?
When I bring it up to him he goes mad at me saying I compare our relationship and he says that I’ll never be happy because he can’t do what I want and he makes out I’m treating him like a dick when I just want him to act like he cares???

Can I have advice please. (Please no bashing me OR my partner he’s a good man)
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