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Hi can I have a private post please? I don’t know if I’m over reacting but I ha…

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Hi can I have a private post please?

I don’t know if I’m over reacting but I have a dilemma. I have a friend who me and my husband have picked up off the floor so to speak. He was near suicidal and we have helped put his life back on track and fed him and helped build his confidence back up. He met a girl online a little while ago and started dating her. I was so happy for him! It was like the final piece of the puzzle had fallen right into place. Anyway what you need to know is I’m a very good judge of character and he has fallen hard for this girl. I met her for the first time a couple of weeks back and something about her didn’t sit right with me at all but I shrugged it off as that she might be nervous as he had told her that we were like his adopted mum and dad. She’s been over a couple of times since then and she’s never sat right with me. Well last time she came she stole from me. Don’t get me wrong it was only something small and inexpensive and if she had asked I would have given it to her, but the point is she stole it. They are coming over this evening as every Tuesday I do tea for my friend and now she tags along. But what would you do in my situation? Would you say something, risking a friendship over a nominal item (I’m worried it could escalate to more important stuff) and a gut instinct? Or would you leave it and not say anything, risking it escalating or your friend getting hurt in the long run? Or wait to see how it pans out and if it gets worse do something about it? I’m tempted to leave something on the side and see if it g oi es missing? Thanks in advance x
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