Hi can I please get some advice me and my ex bf had been together 9 years have a…

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Hi can I please get some advice me and my ex bf had been together 9 years have a 5 year old son together we have been through alot of up and downs. Domestic violence etc but always managed sort things out. Then 2months ago I found out he had cheated on me aswell as him living a practically single life doing whatever he liked not bothering with me and our son. After 9years and lots of ups and downs he decided he wanted live separate but remain together. How would you all take that? I called it a day asked him not come back and he didn’t. Very strange for him as he always been controlling and jealous it didnt make sense. Since then he’s been texting flat out all time it’s always about me him never us and our son he is forever asking me if I’m seeing or with anyone or messaging anyone I’m not but annoys me as he can’t be bothered with our son. He got some money and was meant put it down on a place for him to live he decided to drink and do drugs and stay on his friends sofa but he now has move out and now it’s my fault as he has no place stay so and needs something local go to work as he’s now probably going to loose his job. Why do I still feel guilty and feel this is my fault 😞 so sorry for the huge essay.. please help or give some advice
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