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Hi can I please have a pp, my 11 year old sons dad had him yesterday for the fir…

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Hi can I please have a pp, my 11 year old sons dad had him yesterday for the first time in 4 weeks. I’ve never let him have him overnight because he’s incapable of maintaining a stable relationship with his gf, anyway he phoned me up last night screaming and shouting abuse at me down the phone telling me he wasn’t bringing my son home until today so naturally I was mad and upset about that and to make matters worse he was getting my son to message me until I eventually let up and let him stay. Anyway I said to him until he can speak to me properly not to bother making contact to see him because I don’t want my son thinking it’s acceptable to speak to women the way he spoke to me. He’s now sending him messages saying I’m the one who’s always stopped them from having a relationship with him when I’m not my son picks and chooses himself when he likes to go because he likes playing out with his friends. I don’t think it’s fair he’s getting an 11 year olds input on things and putting words into his head, he’s a child and shouldn’t see his dad disrespecting me! I’ve told him to get his dad to message me himself but he’s blocked me and he’s saying it’s down to him and not me?? Am I in the wrong here?? Sorry for the long post but I’m so mad 😡
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  • sorry but law states from age of 11 it’s up to child whether he sees their father.. therefore rather than u take abuse from father. contact sud b made between father n son

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