Hi can someone please help it may sound stupid to some of you but it’s really bo…
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Hi can someone please help it may sound stupid to some of you but it’s really bothering me,my daughters first birthday is in a few weeks and we’re taking her out to a zoo for the day it’s Going to take us about two hours to get there so we are making a day of it and then on the way back we are going to go out for dinner,anyway by the time we get back it’s going to be late and I’m just going to put my lo to bed as well as my self as currently pregnant and tired,my mum has booked the day of work knowing that we’re going out and has assumed we are going to be back at like 5pm (which we’re not) I have said we are not going to be back and she said yeah I will just come round after.when we come back I just want to relax because it’s going to be late.i just want people to come round the day before her birthday but I just don’t no how to tell her because she will just go funny with me.some of you might find this petty but its really bothering me.advice please sorry for the long post by the way.
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Sent by sender Could you reply to my post please,I have not asked her to come because my oh mum would then want to come and other family members and me and my oh just want her day to be with us at the zoo xx
Just be honest.. My boy is 1 in july and were taking him to the zoo.. Ours is closer so wont be a full day but ive told all my family that i just want me and his dad to spend the day with him.. Ive arranged a little party/bbq for the saturday that follows for all the family.. Some arent happy that they cant see him on the day but its not down to them.. Like i said just be honest as u will feel better.. Supposed to be an exciting day about ur little girl turning 1, not worrying about getting home early enough for visitors x
My sons 1st birthday fell on a Sunday and he had a party which everyone came too which was great, his 2nd birthday was on a Monday so he has a party on the Sunday so everyone could see him, on his birthday me and his dad took him out all day and no one said anything as they had seen him the day before, she’s your child and just explain that your going out and she can see her the day before. I’m sure she’ll be fine about it xx
Let her get funny if that’s what she’s like and do what you want. Ask her I swap her day off to the day before or after.
We stopped seeing family on the actual day of our children’s birthdays as the day becomes about who is visiting and when and not about the birthday child. I’m sure I’ve been bitched about by both mums but quite honestly I don’t care
Just be honest and tell her you don’t want visitors when you get back if she takes offence then let her x
Aww nanny Just wants to see her granddaughter on her birthday … 30 mins won’t hurt will it xx
Maybe say ur going to be staying in a bnb or something so wownt be coming home that day xxx
I feel your pain though I’m pregnant and got a toddler 😱