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Hi can you post private please. I am looking for some advice. Please no bashing it is purely advice I haven’t made a decision.

I am having issues with my daughters dad, she is 5 we have been split since I was pregnant and he has always refused to pay anything even buy nappies ect when she was small. He has his own business so does his own books so CSA is a joke. He claims not to make any money. However I know different and he likes to brag also. Holidays, new work vans, cars, Armani clothes ect. All the while my daughter gets zero from him. He sees her once a week, well his fiancé takes her , he works! Anyway a few weeks ago I thought we made a break through and he said he would start paying £30 per week. This is nothing compared to what he makes but at least it was something. He also agreed that if I asked he would buy her clothes. Anyway I asked and I got a bag of cheap clothes that are not fit for winter and are just horrid for a little girl. I said what I though and explained he would not have his other kids dressed in these. This turned into an argument and he has now stopped the £30 per week.
I am fuming at the fact he thinks it is acceptable to do this. I mean it’s not me that gets that money I use it to buy my daughter things and take her places.
My question is would any one think it’s acceptable for me to stop contact with him? Until a proper agreement is made up. I am against it myself as I have put up with so much from him but always put my daughter first. Just feels like he only does things to get at me and doesn’t actually care about his daughter. It’s not even like it’s him that takes her all the time as he is working the one day he is ment to have her. Has anyone been in this situation or done the same. I really am at breaking point. I feel like smacking his face with a knife!!!! Joking but it really does hurt me. Sorry for the long winded post.
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