Hi can you post this anonymous plz. Me and my kids dad have been split up for …

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Hi can you post this anonymous plz.

Me and my kids dad have been split up for a year now and I’m looking for some advice. As of today I’ve stopped him having the kids overnight and said he can see them at my house whenever he wants until we sort things out via mediation or he takes me to court. I’m just wondering am I being too harsh? The reason I’ve done this is he’s forever letting the kids down, he decides what days he has them usually every 2nd weekend and once during the week but every week almost without fail he will fail to show up or text last min that day saying he can’t take them and his excuses are just ridiculous. Last week it was he had to tidy his room (lives with parents for now) the 2nd was he had to go to the bank. Today it was he needs to figure out what days he can have them etc I’ve just had enough of him letting the kids down and seeing them in tears. Another time he said he would have the kids and I text him what time will I drop them off and he text saying he wasn’t taking them he was already away out with his mates! I just don’t know what else to do. I’m trying to protect my kids but I also understand that they need their dad. All I want is for him to spend the time with them they deserve and for him to stick the days he’s chosen to have them. Not too much to ask is it ?

Has anyone been through mediation or court ? What is the process ? I don’t want to put the kids through this. It’s a last resort but I can’t see any other way to keep some stability in their life regarding their dad

Thanks in advance
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