Hi could I have a private post please. I’m stuck in a rut and don’t know what …
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Hi could I have a private post please.
I’m stuck in a rut and don’t know what to do. Basically me and my partner have been together over 4 years we have a 2 year old and I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant. All we do ever for the last 2 years is argue. Ever since my son was born we just argue over silly little things. Don’t get me wrong he is an amazing dad and I know he will be to our new baby but it has got so bad its just like we’re together because of routine. He tells me I will never leave him and he made me who I am and I will never get better than him. Yes I’m now off work due to having holidays and maternity soon. I know I have to do 90% of the house work as I am off and he works full time. But now he is throwing it in my face he works and I do nothing so basically I should do ever thing and feel like he is making me like a slave he literally expects everything now I’m off. I don’t ask him to do much just clean up after himself once I’ve cleaned up and I don’t expect to constantly have to pick yo after him which I am doing he leaves things everywhere and laughs when he makes a mess knowing I’ve just cleaned. Yes he washes up sometimes and sorts our son when he is here. Just abit more support would be nice as I am struggling a lot now. It sounds so petty but we literally are not getting on and I’m starting to resent the baby because if I wasn’t off he wouldn’t be treating me like this. Im liteeally crying everyday. No bashing just abit of advice please p.s sorry for the long post.
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Could you reply private to my post please.
If I went on a break I honestly don’t think I would go back but on the other hand I don’t know how I would manage on my own with 2 children. I’ve tried telling him how I feel he says I’m just lazy and only a few weeks pregnant so basically stop moaning. He lived with his mother before hand who literally did everyrhinf for him and that’s what he wants but I have 1 child 1 on the way I don’t need another x
sorry but I’ve just left a 7 year marriage bec of this I got fed up of being told when and who I could go out with what my money could go on being told I’m his bec he bought me when we got married . blah blah I left a month ago and even our 3 kids have said how much happier I am . wouldn’t go back ifnyou paid me
Sounds like hes lost the appreciation of u and what u do maybe a break i dont mean seeing other people just abit of time apart for you both to realise whats missing and how u actually feel about eachover time to miss eachover ect xx
He should have more respect for you than to treat you like that, I would tell him how you feel and you need some help xx