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Hi lovely can I have a ppp? Well basically I have been seeing my bf for a yr jus…

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Hi lovely can I have a ppp?
Well basically I have been seeing my bf for a yr just..
He has full custody of 2daughters and sadly a son who passed 5/6month ago who he took on from the age of 2 as his own to his former partner.
Anyway I have 2gjrls also and am currently 6n half month pregnant(unplanned however it’s a blessing)..well his ex messaged me calling me down stating she wishes my baby dead,it’s a brat etc and I am a dead woman walking etc..fast forward 2wks and all of a sudden they 2are best of friends,he’s paying for her to watch her own kids,£50 a wknd to feed and do something with(who she’s not allowed to have contact with also)she said she wouldn’t give me peace and do anything to get him bk he won’t stay with me etc less than 2/3wks..now she’s his best friend..I know they’ll always have a bond as they have kids etc but why after 2yr and my crap has she now decided to be civil..he left the other day to go give her alone of money(yet baby’s yet to receive as much as a bib bought and due soon)last wk he decided we needed a break for no reason and never spoke or replied for 4days..now all I’ve heard is all about the ex trying to better herself but failing unless he helps as a friend and the most important and discusting one is he now demands a DNA test as he has doubts!!😡👊🏼he knows me and knows other than activities with my kids or his I rarely leave the house unless shopping for groceries or clothes etc..my problem is we rarely argued or disagreed and now all of a sudden everything has went tits up and he doesn’t see why I would be annoyed at anything..she’s a drug user(which I understand don’t always mean they’re bad mothers)however she hasn’t bothered in soooo long until now.question is..am I just hormonal and over thinking stuff or what?so now to prove(which I never thought I’d have to as I’ve never been anywhere else and we were so close till last few wks we can’t seem to agree on anything)she always slept or went awal for days and they slept in seperate rooms for yrs..he done school runs dinners etc..so y now step up after wks of torment to me..maybe I’m just overthinking a bit but it’s so hard!sorry about longest post eeeeeveeerrrrr lol
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