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Hi please can I have a post? Sorry it’s long but I needed to write it down and …

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Hi please can I have a post?

Sorry it’s long but I needed to write it down and tell someone the truth

I’m deeply unhappy in my relationship! I need to end things asap!
I’m not even sure where to start. When I found out I was pregnant 3 years ago, I also found out my partner was planning to leave me for his ex (something I had suspected) we patched things up and moved on. Mainly coz i was frightened to have my first baby alone. I wanted to be a family, however a few months later (i was still pregnant) I found out he was talking to other girls and sending and receiving naked photos back and forth. I ignored it as I loved him and was so so sick with my pregnancy that we didn’t have sex for months. He still doesn’t know, I know that he did, and still does talk to other girls like that. Obviously (and rightly so) I don’t trust him at all! I found out recently he has 2 fake Facebook accounts (one male one female) and pretends to be a model to get girls to send him naked photos! I even saw he asked his own sister for photos! It’s sick!! I have no idea if he’s phissiclly cheated on me but the intention has been there for a long time! All this on top of the fact he won’t work to provide for us, he doesn’t ever leave the house (unless it’s to sign on), there is no love or passion in any part of our relationship at all, the occasional hug and disappointing fumble just doesn’t cut it anymore. Me and our nearly 3 year old daughter recently went to Butlins without him, so we could have some space and I know he just chatted up other girls the whole time and played on his ps4, we came back to a trashed flat with no food! for him to just play on his ps4 and ignore me for 2 days, despite not seeing us for 5 days! I need to end this as I’ve let it go on too long and I have FINALLY realised I deserve better and worth more than this… a lot more!! Help me find the words to end things with this scumbag. Even after everything I worry I’m going to make him homeless. Even though he’s a dickhead he’s still my daughter’s father! I’m just too nice for my own good 😢😢
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