Hi, ppp. Thank you. My sons dad has said he is now doing overtime every other we…

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Hi, ppp. Thank you. My sons dad has said he is now doing overtime every other weekend (supposedly working 12 days in a row…has a history of lying) so halving the time he sees him which is already only during the day. I just can’t get my head around it and am still fuming. When he talks about what the money will be for he talks about how he wants a flat, how he wants this thing and that. It’s great he wants to sort himself out but no way would I give up that much time with my son for anything. He honestly doesn’t seem that bothered losing time with his son and I have some form of mum rage. I’ve not voiced it to him but I’d rather it take me longer to save up and still see my child. I’m still at my parents Sharing a room with my boy doing just that. Paying off debt (both of ours I might add) before I move out. He’s not once mentioned paying what he owes me which in his position I would do first. I just don’t get it. All he’s ever really worried about is stuff and money whereas I think time and attention is so much more important. It does mean I get more time with my wonderful son but I’m just confused as to how a parent can just not see their child. He also leaves early on days we meet missing out on bedtime etc and I just don’t get it. I never have. I’d be there from the crack of dawn until bedtime in his shoes. Enjoying every moment I get. Any advice or a perspective to help me understand? Am I wrong for being annoyed on my boys behalf? Xx
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