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Hi was looking for a pp for a bit of advice pleeeease 😊
Had an appointment with my midwife to discuss my birth plan last week as I’m due in 7 weeks. I’ve been told I’m allowed 2 people max in the delivery room with me.
I was obviously wanting my partner in with me but when I was talking to my mum after the appointment she asked if she could be there too.
Bit of background, I’ve always been close to my mum as we lived with my grandparents until I was 13 and she’s more like a sister to me. I’m an only child and my dad walked out on mum before I was born. I was born 11 weeks early, not breathing, by emergency section and was separated frim mum for the first 4 days (she heamoraged after the section and was bed ridden while I was in nicu) so I’m well aware she didn’t get the happy new baby birthing experience she was hoping for!
My mum and partner don’t really get on, mums always thought I could do better and is scared she’s losing her little girl cause I’m starting my own family.
I really want my partner with me as it’s our childs birth but I dont know if I really want my mum there at the actual birth as she’s quite good at the nippy comments to my partner and I don’t want her making us feel uncomfortable 😟
Now I’ve written this out I’m even more confused and needing the advice. TIA xxx
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