Hiya can I get a private post please? It’s a bit of a long one but I’ll try and …

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Hiya can I get a private post please? It’s a bit of a long one but I’ll try and explain in the best way possible.

I left my abusive ex partner and went into a refuge last year with our then 1 year old child and was there for around 6 months. He took me to court and immediately went for full custody, obviously in the long run I now have a child arrangements order that states that our child should live with me and spends every other weekend with his dad. (abuse was never towards his child)… But basically ever since I left he has stalked me continuously. First of all it started with logging into my icloud, my email, my accounts, just to find out where I was and what I was doing. Everywhere I went he was there, everything I did he knew about it. I’m pretty savvy with computers and found out the ip address of these logins and reported him to the police. He was warned but that was all. I have since moved into my own home and have a new partner… And the stalking hasn’t stopped at all, in fact it’s got worse. He’s found out my exact address (was always supposed to be confidential) he stalked my partner and harassed him at work (my partner has since moved jobs)… Hes constantly driving around the area I live and parking up in my cul-de-sac but apparently the police can’t do anything about it because he’s technically not committing a crime. It’s got to the point now where I wake up in the morning to find my gate outside my house ajar, my boyfriends car broken into but nothing missing apart from a bank card and NHS letters…. But here’s the thing. I can’t prove it’s him. He rings up my partners doctors pretending to be him to get information about my partners medication (he’s schizophrenic)… But there’s still no exact proof it is him.

My ex has got a history of stalking and burglary, he knows how to break into a car, he knows how to get into houses and he knows I’m vulnerable because of my mental health… His own ex girlfriend has told me how he used to look in her bedroom windows at night and stare at her from the end of her garden. But the police just aren’t interested. I’m at the point where I can’t sleep properly, I’m spending over 300 pounds on a cctv and alarm system for my house because I’m just panicking. I get up every hour just to look out the window to make sure no one is there….does anyone know how to help me? I’m a nervous wreck and I just feel so abandoned. Thankyou, and please no bashing. Xx
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