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Hiya,
Can I have a private post please.
I have been wanting to end my relationship with my sons father for some time now… I have tried and it turns into a argument then a heart to heart then we are fine again for a few days this cycle starts again. He has threatened to kill himself a few times.
It’s a joint tenancy agreement and it’s not been renewed so it’s rolling now. I have told him. To leave when he’s been really aggressive and nasty to me and he refuses rightfully because he has as much right to stay as me.
I moved from the Midlands to up north, most of the stuff in the house is actually mine and I’ve been clever about it paid for stuff on my card, and had insurance on items in my name too.
I’m in a catch 22. I want to leave but I have lack of funds and places I can stay couldn’t hold a house full of stuff. I’ve thought of writing a letter, leaving when he’s out, whilst I want to I have all the practicalities to consider, my son is starting preschool in September and we are fully established here.
Has anyone ever been in this situation? What would you guys do? I have tried sitting down and having a mature conversation and it turns into a argument. I sit down calmly trying not to cry. Ignoring the verbal abuse sometimes I get so pissed off I have to say something. 😞
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